Scripted ASMR is one thing, but I don't really understand "ASMR RP" streams where they're roleplaying in real time with the chat. Like if she can talk to anyone in the chat it completely kills the illusion that it's just her and me. If she responds to someone else's message and not mine, it would give off the same feeling of being on a dinner date with your girlfriend except there's a bunch of guys sitting next to you and she starts talking to one of them instead of you. How do people who watch these kinds of streams not have their mind broken by such a realization?