>>9402099Pick a hobby.
-Pick a method of socialising (MMOs, online chat rooms, online book clubs).
-Put in the effort to meet as many people as possible, especially women, and especially if they seem interesting to you. Find opportunities to get in contact. Compliment their in-game glam, respond to something interesting that they say.
-Build rapport like you would with anyone, keep interacting positively. Show why you're interesting. Find a way to start talking privately, break the ice of interacting privately. Maybe ask her in PMs about something she said earlier that interested you.
Nurture the contact carefully, non-desperately, and with long pauses if she isn't already messaging herself you at this point.
If time passes and she keeps giving you uninterested responses, move on.
If she finds you interesting, give her more and more of your time, while making sure you're not coming across as too needy.
As you get closer, tease her and jokingly make fun of her for small things (VERY important, but I'm not sure this is easy to emulate if you don't do it naturally - I do).
Keep spending time with her. Push boundaries very carefully, make a suggestive joke or two. If she seems uncomfortable, back the FUCK off. If she likes it but isn't thrilled, keep going. If she seems to do it back to you, you're in.
I can only speak from the perspective of a dominant guy, so if you're submissive, I really don't know what to tell you. But as long as you're at this point, you can start jokingly telling her what to do and being forceful, ALWAYS with a hint of playful irony.
It sound weird typing all of this out like a strategy guide considering that all of this came naturally to me. I've only ever made a girl uncomfortable with this stuff once, in fact, I'm usually too careful - they usually end up taking initiative when I go too slowly. I've only ever made a girl uncomfortable once, because I was pretty forceful in asking if she wanted to chill when we haven't spoken in months, and even then, I'm pretty sure she just had a stick up her ass. None of the girls I've known for a longer time have been uncomfortable.
>>9402146Your porn obsession lead you to not understand women. I'm on an anonymous image board, dumbass. I don't have an ego here. I literally just want to share the joy.
