>>95566608>In my opinion Cover should have installed some kind of tech tree mod to make them unlock new blocks together.>Like "collect 500.000 gold" to unlock the Nether gate kind of stuff.As a huge minecraftfag this shit never goes down like you think it would. It's best to leave things as sandboxy as possible, even if they do get burned out and leave the server for dead.
Long term worlds are a huge focus in the minecraft community right now actually, everyone is putting out videos about how to keep motivated and resist the urge to reset everything and start again. The one thing that always comes up is breaks are inevitable - you're going to get bored, and that's okay, so long as you don't start a new world when you do feel like playing again.
The real solution would be to organise an annual minecraft week or something, so instead of holomem coming back to the server at different times and missing each other, everyone is encouraged to come back at the same time.
Big collaborative projects are also a good idea. For example, there's no way Kaela's gonna build another netherite beacon all by herself on the new server, but as a server wide project for all 68 girls, a netherite beacon is way more attainable. The occasional event, within the parameters of the SMP, are the best way to go about it imo.
But still, this is simply the nature of minecraft. You can't really avoid it, and you shouldn't try to. You just gotta let whatever happens, happen.