>>95937775 If not for the shipping fees across the atlatnic I'd probably sent her a package that contains some snacks, a cookbook with simple recipes + some note to motivate her to start cooking herself so she she is healthier, and a very simple hoodie.
That way I'd achieve all of my goals—I'd feed her some snacks (cute), I'd (maybe) help her fix her diet a little, and I'd dress her (it's fun to imagine her wearing something you gave her).