>>96549886Look within yourself. You know the answer.
Seriously though, the one thing this doesn't apply to is my physique. I more or less allow myself to be proud of that because it's the results of my efforts and habits. Of course this then also brings with it the propensity for being unsatisfied and you have to find a good balance for how much you want to care. This does not apply to my face, personality, hair, style, or other traits like intelligence or social skills, none of those feel in my control and I just don't like thinking about them.