>>98095988get bullied as a kid for being cringe and awkward, be fully aware of your cringeness and awkwardness at a young age have it fully drilled into you
then at a young age youve already accepted how cringe and awkward you are so you embrace it, pack up your bags and move to japan with mediocre japanese to teach mediocre english, get paid mediocre salary, and write mediocre music with shitty friends who would backstab you if you ever got real success
if you didnt have all that by your early twenties then your life is probably too cushy to ever drive you to work hard at anything ever