>>7370534Now for friends and and Family and such, I don't have much experience but, I know half of everyone is a shit person because we're all made to believe we need to solve each others problems and not our own. Not taking personal responsibility for your own burdens, taxes yourself as well as society. If you have friends that have problems, encourage them to solve it themselves. You can pick up their slack once or twice but if it goes beyond that, say the same problem but you help your friend out 3 times this month, you stop it. If they complain and try to make your life worse off, you cut them out of your life. You don't stand for that because you have your own life to live. You can't live two lives at once because there isn't enough time to do such and it's also kind mindbendingly stupid, and continuing to solve their problem will sap you of your strength and resources as well. It wasn't your problem to begin with. If they try to make it your problem, you make sure to yourself as best as possible because a twat like that will find some way to screw you over. Cutting them from you life is the safest thing to do but you need to make sure everything is severed.