>>7564352I used to live in a similar town, so I understand how that feels. it's but a fleeting respite, but im sorry you got dumped anyway. A very close friend of mine is going through the same thing right now, and having been there I know it never really heals. Opening yourself up to someone like that is supposed to be a once in a lifetime thing, to have it dashed in a moment leaves a scar. There isn't much I could say that could help you, but just know that someone out there read what you wrote and empathized with your story. That counts for something sometimes. Try to remember how temporary the present is, that these things come in waves and whats down today will probably be up another day. Watch some comedy, something that always makes you laugh, and remember how good it feels to do so. Forget about those who offer you nothing anyway and remember to be someone worth being.
>>7564371Thanks man, and I agree. Very difficult times right now for quite a lot of people. Hung up my christmas lights outside the other day to bring some spirit to my neighborhood. everything helps.
>>7565289stay with it homie, one month or ten, things will return to normal eventually.
>>7565309great attitude. it gets easier, but its never a given. learn to enjoy the fruits of the social interaction and youll never fear it. lots of people are worth your time, but youll never know them until you try. keep your chin up, and im proud of you for making this effort.
>>7566289never de-legitimize your feelings because of the feelings of others. you can learn to humble yourself with the retrospect of how others feel, but never discount yourself. you're important because you're you, just like how everyone is important because they're them. I don't know what brings you happiness, but I hope you find it in due time. remember to care for yourself, because if not you then who else?
