>>7484290Politeness, manner, dignity are the surface, and they speak well of a person's quality of character. But they, on their own, only suffice for that surface level contact.
Being able to open up, showing proper discernment in letting people in, and being authentic, are the steps needed for deeper relationships.
>>7484295Don't make her decisions for her. Sort yourself out, with her help if she can be there for you, and live your life rightly for you. If she's right for you, stay with her. If not, move on. She will have to do the same.
And it will be okay.
