>>7654697> start taking care of your skin and hair, dress well, and for the love of god if you aren't already lifting get a gym membershipHonestly this just isn't it. Since highschool I have dressed as well as I can afford, though dressing well can mean a number of things to different people. i.e. sports clothes, or preppy, or just with clothes that are well fit.
Either way, I have worked out to the point that I am in the shape that I always thought was impossible. ropes of muscles down my arms, six pack, V shaped chest. I cannot do any more visually. I been working out for over 8 years and the only other thing I could do is become one of those balloon animal looking lifters and I am too short for that.
Socially, I am fine. I have talked to many girls. Including this one in the lab. I get anxiety sometimes which can make me awkward, but I have learned to hide it as best I can and I can get a girl talking back and forth for hours.
My problem is I can't find a girl who is available.
I never had a computer or smart phone growing up until college, and so I never got into social media and stuff.
I started at a community college so I missed out on making friends as a freshmen too. I have really shot myself in the foot as far as having connections to meet people. Which is everything.
I realize now from these posts
>>7651328>>7651200>>7653202, and from what I have seen of the people I know who were in my situation that its more about knowing a lot of people and having a lot of chances to try with a girl than it is about knowing how to get it perfectly right.
So me, only knowing one girl at this new university, have no way of getting a girl simply because I don't know any.
Tindr was a miserable failure, and honestly the girls that I did chat with were really gross.
I just need to come up with some way of meeting more people.
>>7654702Oh yeah, I know the advice is wild on here, but I really just needed to talk about it with someone, I am really alone here..
