>>7649526Thanks,
I will have to consider some of the things you said.
> you should be trying your best to MAKE her want to cheat, or even better, realize you're the better man, which you probably are.Look man, it's easier said than done.
I can easily justify this, TO MYSELF...
I've slaved away to get to this point in life (don't have PhD yet, but I will). He's just some spoiled kid who grew up with the silver spoon in his mouth and rich successful parents/family.
From the time I've seen him he acts like he has some chip on his shoulder. Typical dbag, wears a chain, backward hat, gym muscles (which I am still more yoked than him btw), but I know deep down he is a major pussy. He acts like that because for him life is easy, but you don't act like that when life is kicking you in the balls.
All of this I already know...
To her, how do I sell this? That is the real challenge, and not as easy as you think
for perspective
>dad is in a psych ward (has been since I was 8)>Mom is addicted to a bunch of opioids. Don't even talk to her anymore except to do my paperwork for uni each year.>Older brother is a druggie, last time I saw him (~7 years ago) I broke his nose because he stole money from my mom>I didn't do family vacations, family dinner, family events.I have the most ugly unattractive past. This girl is just attracted to my appearance, maybe my demeanor. But my social status is a massive turn off. She knows a little about me, but we haven't gotten to any of the dirty details yet.
Also, lets be honest, I have weird pastimes like browsing this wallpaper board for example.
This is why I need a girl who actually likes me. No surface level girl is going to date me because I am just gross to them. The whole "chad" life isn't for people like me.
It's for people who already have it made like this guy. That's why he has the girl and I don't.
Anyways, I appreciate the advice, but there is more to this than just mindset I think. Can you agree with that?
