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don't fear 30 so much
only women think you're supposed to have everything in your life sorted at that age because they exepct you to take care of them
just set goals like make a plan (including the financial side of it) so you can acquire wants and needs
focus on
>job(career)
>car
>your own place
>have a routine (including grooming and haircuts)
>develop a fashion style that suits you don't worry too much about what's the latest fashion though don't spend thousands on clothes
>in your daily routine devote an hour to learning something (maths, a skill, just anything) better if it's centred around something you're interested in, read non-fiction shit not just fantasy novels or whatever you're into that's for play time
>develop a hobby (playing computer games and watching tv isn't a hobby)
>on the weekend go to new places like go on a hike or over night camp or scenic bike ride enjoy nature
>exercise is very important as well as you get older shit can go downhill quick if you don't, 4x a week of 45min sessions cardio + weights
>eat healthy (learn how to cook) yeah maybe on a friday night or saturday treat yourself to a burger or whatever
>don't drink excessively at least not during the week
>live within your means don't live paycheque to paycheque
>have a budget (look up some budgets online, have a savings and spending account) ACQUIRE WEALTH!!!!
>so if theirs some economic turmoil you don't straight away have to sell the house or get out of the rental and live in your car still paying off debt
>don't burn bridges anywhere
>although cut toxic people at of your life
maybe you learn so much about a hobbie you can turn it into a side hustle and you can retire early
you'll feel much more secure in yourself as you look aesthetically better + have more energy from exercise and you'll be smarter because you are gaining knowledge and you've got a plan that you are following and the hard work will feel sweeter when you get that apartment or that car or whatever