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Treat life like a dinner party.
Being born is the equivalent of being admitted to the table. Around this table are many other people, some good, some bad, some stupid, some wise, and many in between those things. Be social, affable and generous to the guests around you. If someone is rude or malicious, politely ignore them.
When a dish comes your way, take a reasonable portion and pass it on. Don't get impatient for certain dishes to reach you, it's rude. Don't ask for things not on the table, that too is not only rude, but ungrateful. Enjoy what's given to you, thank the host, and share what you get with those nearby.
There will be nice cutlery made of silver, cups and plates made out of gold - use them for their purpose, but don't place importance on them, try to keep or collect them, or squabble over them with other guests. You can't bring them with you when you leave after all.
When the time comes you'll have to leave to make room for other guests. Don't leave the table early - it would be bad manners, and who knows what dish or conversation you might miss? Don't be reluctant to leave when you must - others must also have the chance to enjoy the evening after all.
It's only for a short time, so relax and wait patiently until it's time to leave. If you don't enjoy the evening yourself, maybe you can help someone else to have a good night.
