Quoted By:
as far as I understand it, love is something that should be reserved for people who want to help you become better and have no problem admitting they need to become better. not for someone that just so happened to give you their "attention."
took me far too long to realize that, however the point is moot as I no longer have the energy or desire to sift through people.
as for you, i cant tell you it wont hurt, but it will get a bit easier with time and contemplation of the bigger picture.
if you have kids together, try to keep it as civil as you can and never talk shit about her to them. if there are no kids: TREAT YOSELF.
