>>8006360A somewhat level response (other than the tourretic use of nigger) but I would question the efficacy of employing "tests" on a partner beause it sounds like you're really just struggling to let go of a relationship that would otherwise be best walked away from, which some ARE and to not entertain that as a possibility is somewhat immature.
I suppose it also depends on OP's actual situation but these "tests" are all things that the other party could still do Of Their Own Accord. But wanting control of the partner's devices and correspondence is supremely dumb, if that's something you "have" to do to feel in control of a relationship then just throw away the whole acquaintance because that isn't a productive line of reasoning.
>inb4 bait