>>6698806Thank you, I needed someone to affirm if I'm thinking correctly - I really can't see a bad side to that decision, other than the fact I'll feel like shit for a longer while and she will probably feel similarly. But I'm not worried about becoming cold towards her the way you described - after getting to know her very well i can tell i'll admire her, lovers or not. I just need to make sure not to overdo it, as you said. Some people try to get over their loves by making themselves resent their object of affection. That's what i need to avoid. Oh, and she does know I have feelings for her, but how does she understand that, or how she feels about that? I wish i knew. She does seem to have settled comfortably with having be as a friend, and if I'm going to be anything else than a miserable shit, I need to break that comfort zone. It's a shame, she gets a lot of shit in life and I hate the thought of adding to her problems. But I've made my decision.
Thank's again.
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