>>5948136In short words; being there for people is going to build your own self-confidence, which is going to reflect onto your way of being. And if you can continue to be a great guy with a growing self-confidence, things are going to take a turn for the better for you, both socially and mentally. I don't mean to tell you exactly how to run your life, but I hope that you can draw something from what I'm trying to say:)