>>8006236>>8006276Right right I was tired when I posted and I forgot I was on 4CHAN! home of the baddass megachads who are swarming with women and are very socially well adjusted! I'll see if I can translate for you.
>>8005951What you need to do is look at things objectively. You currently have a wife, who has given you two children and is presumably fucking you on the regular. She is an asset, either in the form of a second income or in the form of a house keeper. Regardless of the infidelity, if anything above is false tell her to fix it or you leave. The problem is a single event 4 years in the past, something that has not yet proven to be a trend. It is a tumor in the relationship, and we need to do some tests to see if it is cancer.
1. Be clear with your feelings. I don't mean come up weeping but try and explain exactly how she hurt you. Explain that the lieing hurts as much as the cheating and the breach of trust is devastating. If she does not show remorse, leave.
2. Make it clear you want to re-establish trust, but it will take time. She no longer has any privacy from her husband. You get the pass to her phone, laptop, any forms of communication she has and go through it at will. She will not be given any other means of hiding an affair. She might hesitate, but be calm and insistent. She lied to you for 4 years and hid a major breach of trust, there is no way to build trust when there are shadows doubt can grow in.
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