>>8005951OP. I had a similar thing happen to me. We only had one child together. I am now almost a decade into my second marriage, I have full custody over my first child, and two more beautiful children now. If you decide to separate because of this(you should), mind your manners, make sure all of your ducks are in a row, and be there for your kids. Even if it kills you, play nice, watch them while she goes out and parties with fuck boys. Cultivate your masculine energy and focus. They are your allies. Eventually she will either slip up, giving you the opportunity to tear her to shreds legally with a specialist 'Men's rights' attorney, or, in the more ideal scenario, you catch her during the time when she's emotionally vulnerable and just wanting to relive her youth, and you may be able to get her to voluntarily sign custody over to you when she abruptly hits the wall and she's lamenting her reduced options as a blown out single mom. It seems impossible as a man, but I and several other have done it. About two years ago I received a heartfelt apology text from my ex taking accountability for everything, I ignored it and responded with dates for our kids school function. She's now stuck living with her mom and her second bastard child who is a massive discipline case and violently autistic. I thought about taking my own life several times, but I did yoga, meditation, anything I could to cultivate mental focus and strengthen my resolve, and I fucking won.
P.S. When it comes to the dating scene, single dads are the opposite of single moms. "I won custody of my kids from my deadbeat ex-wife." is a phrase that just makes chicks want to blow you. I promise.
