>>7695860it's not always an "always greener" situation. Sure there are happy autists and miserable chads, but more often than not perpetual loneliness and exclusion aren't conducive to mental health. The more well adjusted you are early on, the better skills you have to not end up lonely and friendless when you're older.
The biggest difference is in having options. A friendless loser doesn't have the option to so easily find a wife and live an idyllic day job. He'll have trouble even attracting one girl, much more so than some guy who got all the partying out of his system and is free to settle down with no regrets on wasted youth. A crazy party life may leave you hungover more often than not, but it also leaves you socially adjusted, with a strong social support system and no nagging complexes or insecurities.
Before you spout some coping platitude about happiness being a perpetually elusive mirage that evades well adjusted and poor adjusted people alike, try to understand that just because a popular jock can have a bad day doesn't his life is just as bad as the kids he bullies.
But I know that people will be drawn to agree with you because, more than anything, autistic losers want to be reassured that their lives aren't any more miserable than anyone else's. The comfort of that lie is far more valuable than the truth of knowing that the world beyond your lonely room feels the greatest pleasure in not sharing your rare misery.
