>>7802742I strive for achievements all the time. Right now I'm working on losing weight and just being more fit. I'm already pretty healthy, but trying to get better. Current goal is getting rid of enough fat to have a six pack and then work on more muscle growth. At least that's my physical goals. Always working on learning more every day. No matter how fit I ever get, I'm still a nerd at heart.
Maybe deep down I don't really feel like I want my self, so if I feel like other people want me then my brain will think I'll start wanting me more. The other questions are ones I need to ponder more in my head. Thank you Anon, I really appreciate it.
>>7802771That sucks. reasons like that is why I follow the bro code. Probably moving to a different city might be good. Only up from here, you're right.
>>7802775Mental and physical health tie hand and hand. I keep on forcing my self to go outside no matter how sad I might be. Just got to go at it day by day, and set up for a better tomorrow. Need to. Being sad at life isn't a way to live life, and isn't a life I want to live.
>>7802793Currently 20, and thankfully I'm from the US. I'm incredibly lucky to be here, no matter how much people want to trash talk the US. At least it's first world and not under constant war.
My current plans to try to get out of the rut aren't the absolute best. All I really have planned is college and trying to have hobbies keep me busy and make me money. I know once I'm in college I'll probably have a good time finding women, but I plan on moving to a different college a few hours south of the one I'm going to after this year because I'm too far away from everything. Plus I have some good friends south of me that I enjoy dearly. But I also know it is a dangerous game to have the source of my happiness or someone accepting me in a relationship. I should be able to accept my self for who I am and feel like people want me right now.