>>5333156I was just trying to give advice based on experience.
I put on a happy persona daily.
I am currently completely independent, however I would rather co-exist with another.
I relate to what OP is saying, however I have not lost hope despite all my rejections.
I see it this way. Why would I want to be with someone who has no feelings for me?
I want someone to admire and cherish me mutually out of love and not pity.
I only search for genuine women now. The superficial women are not worth my time anymore.
I understand that by pursing the ones whom could care less about me just to feel comfort hurts the most.
I would much rather feel comfort from someone who mutually loves me then feel comfort from a succubus whore.
OP makes it sound like life is not giving him the chance to be this amazing relationship partner, when all I got last night was a headache from trying to help someone.
Nobody likes negativity. I understand that it is easy to be positive when nothing negative is going on in your life. I am not telling you to cheer up and feel better.
If you need to cry and be sad then do so. Just take my advice to heart when you are done sulking in your sorrows, whatever the sorrows may be.
Then after your tears are shed move on and continue to pursue what you ultimately want in life.
I am personally looking for someone who is faithful, genuine, trustworthy, loving, and admires all of my traits with mutual love for me.
I need to make my heart vulnerable in the meantime to open myself to being hurt.
I am looking for a good heart and I know that I will either find someone who I can mutually love, or die trying.
I hope OP has a change of heart and takes my advice.
~<3~ Cheers
