>>7652876You're not wrong, I just didn't realize it because it usually materialized in ways that just didn't bother me.
The end of it was when she showed total disregard for me when I was trying to show her the place I grew up loving. It hurt bad. Then she started getting upset with me for wanting kids someday, argued I would "ruin her body." After that she was not supportive of me whatsoever when I was searching for a job fresh out of college, meanwhile I visited grad schools with her to support her. After a few months long distance I finally cut it off. Learn to do that before me. It's one thing to compromise in life. Its another to support someone pursuing their goals while they stomp on yours.
