>>6697571I'm sorry to say this bud, but the problem kinda lies with you. Relationships are about communication and compromise, you can't expect her to change her ways if you aint willing to do the same.
And what I find most disturbing is the fact that the relationship is ruining you, not lifting you up. If she's fucking with your routine, workout, aspirations, then make adjustments. She'll understand. I don't know what you put in the word "emotional pansy", but a being in a relationship makes you sometime feel vunerable. That shit is normal.