>>7249373Love doesn't mean ownership, love means appriciation on a very high level. Once you get that, you'll get over breakups much easier because you will only feel the loss of her presence, not some illusory sense of attachment made of stone. Remember what you had, the good and the bad, and use it to enrich yourself, and in doing so, move on, and keep asking "Am I doing right by myself?", both in terms of interests as well as identity and principles. You'll be fine, you'll see.