>>6539844I know that feeling anon, after such a long and intense first relationship, the end is crushing and its really hard to get into anything else, let alone other relationships. I'm not really the type that can drown myself in other people or casual sex to get over things. Like you said, don't really care what I'm doing, just wanna do it with someone I care about :/
>>6539934I think we all feel like someone else has it worse (which is probably true), but you can't let that detract from the drive to solve your shit. No advice, I feel very much the same, but I hope things get better for you anon.
>>6539947holy shit, any legal bullshit to deal with? or did it go pretty smooth after the fallout? sorry you have to deal with that. getting out is probably the right thing to do though.
>>6540021Not to bag on the other guy who replied to you, but I really don't think 'entertaining his offer as a friend' would be the best thing. Judging by what you said, he's probably at least somewhat into you, and the only outcomes I see from taking this date would be A) he thinks you're also into it, but shy or want to go slow or something, B) he thinks you're just "getting a free lunch", ya know? I've had a couple girls do this to me, and while you have 1000x better intentions, it could potentially still be crushing. Awkward as fuck, but my recommendation is straight up saying the stuff you said in your post, just preface it with "I don't want any confusion or to be a dick" etc etc...
>>6540056goddamn that sunset looks good
>>6540200no worries, do you!
>>6540270ouch, the inertia from the 'not doing shit' lifestyle is hard to overcome, try some little tasks to get back into it. ex: respond to emails, get back in bed for a bit. do a homework problem, get back in bed, make yourself some food, do 10 pushups, get back in bed. shit like that.
