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So. I can't complain about my life: I have a decent job, I'm in school for cybersecurity, and I essentially have an anime girlfriend. Yet, that's where the problem starts — with her. We are happy, but I feel as if she isn't ready for full commitment. I feel as if I can only do things when she isn't home because whenever she is home, she is typically crying and feeling bad for "not being enough" or "taking up space." I am constantly calming and reassuring her, which in turn makes me feel as if I can't do anything. To amplify this, I can't tell if she has made any progress at all. It also feels like she can't pull herself out of the negative headspaces either. We've been together nearly a year and plan to buy a house in the next few months. That *may* help with the issue, but I'm still at a loss for what to do here. I do love her, and I want to be with her, yet her constant sorrow and complaining are starting to bother me lately. What, my /wg friends, are your thoughts?
