>>7646574Ok that might be some bad advice but I think you should at least try to be friends with her and bide your time.
This sounds like some beta orbiter bullshit but it might be best in your situation. Telling her how you feel might be super risky since she's also your partner/coworker.
Things might change, you never know.
Also, finding a mate based on hobbies, interests and things you like is not (i think) the way to go. You should do it based on values for a real meaningful relationship, I learnt that the hard way.
Best of luck, mate.