>>7737221How? Oh don't worry, it's very easy.
Be in the relationship for 11 years
lie for the majority of the time about any- and everything
don't have sex for the last five or six years
get yourself kicked out
live on the street for a month or two
get a into a psych ward for six weeks, so you finally get the strengh to tell her...
???
profit
"worked" for me...
Nobody can tell you how, some advice can be helpful, I think you got some here.
Talk to people all you want, you won't get the solution, sadly.
If you can feel, I couldn't, do it so YOU won't regret how you did it.
Whatever shit happens afterwards, is not your "fault".
Also, it's not a question about fault, at no point, not yours not hers/his/its.
A relationship needs, at least, two willing people.
success to you,(no "good luck" from me, that is for suckers that don't work for and on themselvs)
inb4: my english ain't perfect or well, I live with it.