>>7716556I've been blessed with what most women would call a "model" face, 6'0'', decent body (was fat all throughout middle and high school), and grew up only around women so I'm very good at chatting shit. Trust me, that popularity only creates a different set of problem. I didn't start to develop my looks until I finished my undergrad, before then, I knew when people were speaking to me it was because they wanted to or they had a good reason to. Now that I'm hot, people just talk to me for no reason and ramble on about absolute fucking bullshit. People want to attach themselves to you, they want to have you in their pocket, they want to parade you around like a handbag, the point is, you're surrounded by fake people.
At least alone in your basement, nobody is abusing you or lying to you to meet their own ends. Different problems.