>>5947775You remind me so much about myself some years ago. I've always been the nice guy, the one nobody disliked, nor directly liked if you get what I'm saying. I was more or less neutral to everyone, kept my tongue about people I didn't like. I had a lot of friends, but it would always require that 2 or more of my friends were already hanging out for me to feel comfortable joining them. I knew that I was a pretty boring guy, and girls would always be a major discussion theme between my friends. Me, being a virgin and pretty clueless about girls had nothing to contribute with, which led to me speaking my mind like 1 time every hour. I'm the thinking type of guy, I can find company in myself, just thinking about stuff. I would lay awake at night, trying to understand how everyone else had such an easy time talking to people, why they got good looking GFs, and how I would go about changing myself to a more popular guy. I don't know if you understand what I've been trying to say up to this point, but let me tell you this: Do NOT try to change who you are, and don't try to copy someone else's way of being. I know this sound really generic, and I guess you hear this all the time, but this is the only thing that will make you progress. Now, 2-3 years later, I'm lucky enough to have a good looking GF and being that guy people actually want to be around. Instead of trying to change who I was, I decided to be as nice as i could to everyone i knew, and didn't knew for that sake. By nice, I mean helping them out with everything they would require help with and listening to them puke out their opinion of things. Once people feel comfortable around you, thats when you'll see who they really are, and then you'll be able to separate the nice guys from the selfish morons. And if you'd want to take my tip on girls, don't go chasing after them. If a girl is worth keeping, she's gonna meet you halfway and be able to separate a great guy like you from other guys.
