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I have been thinking about friends drifting apart.
One of my friends has started seeing a girl and has started ignoring all the messages and calls our friend group has made.
Thing is, we have tried to gently let him know from the beginning that he can do better. The girl doesn't seem to have any life other than basically spying on him through his social media profiles (He already gave her his passwords; I really don't understand this one, relationships are built on trust, does she not trust him enough to not ask for his private social media profiles?).
One example of her and when we actually found out she had access to his accounts was when I was jokingly replying to one of his instagram posts and calling him hot basically.
She messaged me from his account and told me to delete it and we knew he of all people wouldn't care about the message. Why should she get a say in what her boyfriend's friend-group does?
After that, our entire friend-group started to dislike her and as I mentioned previously started talking less with us and now doesn't even pick up our discord group call.
Our best guess as to why started dating her is probably because of his low self-esteem. She gave him attention after his break-up. Helped him get over the ex.
Regardless, it doesn't seem like there's anything we can do to help. He has to be the one to step up and make the right decision for himself.
