>>7695035Both for me. I'm mid-20s so not that old but I struggled a lot with various feelings in high school and most of them seem extremely unimportant now. I got a girlfriend a couple of years into college and we are still together. Firstly, you'll still be the same person when you have a gf as you are now so its good to realize things wont get *that* much better on their own and you have to work on yourself. And secondly there really is no rush - you'll find someone eventually, almost everyone does at least once, and even if it takes a long time your emotional maturity at age 18 is extremely different than just a few years after 18 so you'll move past those enormous feeling late-teenage struggles no matter what happens.
So yeah, tl;dr, the struggles of young adulthood will not always seem so important and that's a very good thing.