>>7450847>>7451130If you can't make any friends you like, then either your expectations are too high or you're just not attractive enough. I don't mean physically attractive, just things like: interesting, energetic, thoughtful, creative, etc.
If you think others are too mean, maybe you're too sensitive, or maybe they're just not worth your time. If the ladder is true, then you need to figure out how to attract the people you do like. You do that not necessarily by being more like them, but by projecting value. A nice person who is fragile and timid will not be attracted to a mean spirit, but they definitely will be attracted to someone who is nice but also strong. Essentially, to attract the best kinds of people, you need to be the best kind of person, which means you need to find it within yourself to improve every aspect of your character.
Wish you could talk to the people you live around? Spend less time here or abusing substances and more time studying the language and reaching out. The road to living a good life is very hard, and you shouldn't expect to be happy and have a lot of high-quality friends if you haven't put in any effort to become worthy of those things. You don't deserve good things just because you're alive, no matter what your society tells you. If you want a better life then stop looking at how bad your life sucks and start realizing how bad you suck and fix it.
tl;dr it's your fault and you need to change
