I have a fwb. Sex is all right, we do cute shit together, it's like dating but without being exclusive. Except I just can't tell myself that we're not exclusive. The person is super chill and doesn't stress up about anything, as far as I can tell, meanwhile it makes me an emotional mess roughly once every week. Slept with another guy on a whim for the first time last night, not only was the sex not as good, but I can just feel in my heart that it's not what I want. But I also really, really aren't ready to commit to a relationship. Can't eat the cake...
>>7076733Had an ex who tried to kill himself when I broke up with him. No matter what, it is not you who force their hand. I think it's harsh as fuck, but you can't save everyone, and you're tying yourself down out of fear for that person right now. I had to call the ambulance to a different country which was hard as fuck, and if I hadn't made it he would have died, but I would probably have dealt with it through my therapy. But... Yeah. Even for what I did, I needed therapy, so there's that.
