>>7497599Hey buddy. I've been through the same thing. I wish I could say something that will just fix everything. I can't
I just want you to know though that everybody recovers at a different rate. Some people take years to recover from a short relationship, some people take days to recover from a long relationship, and everything in between. It doesn't matter whether you take "too" long or not; there is nothing you can do to speed it up. All you can do is wait.
What I know for sure though is that if you desire, anywhere in your being, to recover, it will happen. Even if you don't notice it or feel it. You won't benefit from some sort of checklist of recovery. All that matters is that you desire it. There will always be a piece of you that's lost or hurt, this is unavoidable, but you will recover somehow, some way. The pain will end up being something you don't care about or pay attention to, it will be insignificant. Recovery will happen. Just do what you need to do and don't think about recovering. Just do your thing.
