>>7283981Hey, as someone who shoved commitment off and didn't get into many relationships at first because I was scared, let me say that love can hurt you, but you can also get so much out of it. Having been in a few long term relationships since, I have definitely felt the pain of love, but also the reward. In my mind, that commitment and the vulnerability is worth it. You learn from every relationship if you are attentive, and if it doesn't work out, you go forward knowing more about how it all works and more about yourself.