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OP here.
Sorry, had to go out.
In no way would my mother accept him having an affair and her life is pretty much dictated by trying to be good enough for him. She puts all the effort into their relationship and the most he does is provide “negative reenforcement” by making her (us) feel bad about insecurities.
She used to have anorexia and he would rip her out for it. In actuality he is the most insecure person I know, apart from myself.
I have no emotional connection with the man whatsoever and only feel from him the disappointment and shame for his legacy. My family would be better off without the underlying resentful tension constantly poisoning our lives.
So attempted justification complete, does no one know how to remotely monitor an iphone?
I did some research but it seems I would have to (pay to) jailbreak both our iphones and discretely keep an app hidden on his phone.
Is this the only way?
