>>863063You dumbass the answers are in the book. Just read the book. You're overthinking it, that's why I told you to try meditation. Overthinking doesn't always mean getting ahead.
Again, read the book. Doesn't matter what I'm like.
For the sake of shutting you up I'll say this at the very least:
1.) I believe in truth and reciprocity. Me and my bf agree that truth before face regardless of cost ESPECIALLY in a relationship is crucial. Honesty is key and lies always lead to disaster. Doesn't mean privacy isn't a thing, just means that we're employing the real time relationships method (reference: real time relationships by Stefan Molyneux)
2.) Hobbies, gym, interests don't matter. These are small things that have no importance outside of the fact that I some interests with my bf. Only reason I met him was because I was in martial arts class and I met him there. The key is being outgoing.
3.) Feminine traits... I want to be a mother, I want to be the best mother I can be. I have Christian ethics/values but I'm not a Puritan it's 2020 after all. Only form of feminism i support is moral responsibility on behalf of women and a relatively equal relationship.
4.) I love cooking. Why make an instant meal when I could make whatever the fuck I want?
Hope this helps. Your persistence is a good trait. Keep it, and when you get the time read the book.