>>369782That's pretty hard actually...
Usually you either have fairly serious yandere-level obsession, or just the tsundere aspects.
So most of the time, you have some -dere that is into a guy, but doesn't want to admit it to herself, for example in Kaichou wa maid-sama.
Celty of Durarara is the best written female character that comes to mind that remotely goes into that direction. But she is just one of many characters, so her story is also just one of many in the series. And she is an adult, so it's not like "I want sex naow" is the only thing on her mind.
I remember an anime about a girl who wants to sleep with 100 guys in high school, then gets kinda stuck at the first one. Will try to remember the name later.
Also, I'd recommend His and Her Circumstances.
Actually, Overlord might be something for you. It is kinda harem, but the MC is an undead Lich, so, not really I guess? Several of the characters fit your description, for example Albedo aka best girl.
I highly recommend reading the LNs though, so much more indepths and funny than the anime.