>>754021>Who is to say your mother is not consenting?>Who are you to tell them how to live their marriage?is this a troll? who are you to assume everything you just mentioned on occurrence is to turn out correctly?
it's for OP to come to a conclusion. we're here to provide guidance. we're here to close the book; where you're merely writing more pages, unnecessarily
the actions that OP commits, after we've offered him our advice, is completely up to his conscience. you have no basis, here
this is most likely an individual case, where OP's mother may not fall in the category of "Plenty of spouses"