>>1266042>I brought up how it's unrealistic in these kinds of manga/anime that they never fuck.Since you seem militantly unwilling to google: the s&m takes the place of the fucking. It's entirely not-unusual to not want to fuck your play partner and/or not want to play with someone you fuck. It's also not unusual to do both. But your observation that it's "unrealistic" that all they do is play is profoundly ignorant. To a lot of people, play is more intimate and more of a big deal than sex is.