>>751109this, but it takes a while to develop.
Legend of the Galactic Heroes has plenty of fine men to choose from
Lady Oscar is the manliest cool girl
Mob from mob psycho 100% is a slow timid looser with strong conviction to self improvement
Gurren Lagann of course is known for its great coming of age story. The theme of following the steps of greater men and overcoming yourselfs and even your idols is strong in it.
I hope you get out of your hard time soon, and you find osme good role model. also, sometimes what you need is catharsis, when I was very depressed watching Wellcome to NHK and seeing the worst of myself reflected at me, and sobbing to emotional shit like Tokyo Magnitude 8.0 helped me get back up.
