>>1290762>>1291323Not those anons but you should do the cs50 online course. Starts with C, gives you the basics, and then teaches you python, sql, and webdev, all useful technologies, but the most important part is it teaches you how to think. If you have that, the language doesn't matter too much, as you will see after a few weeks into the course, you will pick up the basics of these languages in 1 or 2 weeks.
Aside from that, stating with Java or C# should be fine, I started with C# which is like Java but more modern and nicer in my opinion. Python is probably the most important programming language, it is really good and easy to use, so definitely learn that too, though I'd start with a language that's statically typed. But honestly go with whichever just don't give up. I started a Java course and I was like wtf is all this public static void Main class namespace shit and I didn't get into programming until I came across a video of some guy doing cool shit in C# which is literally like Java but the important part is to just use it and make fun programs