>>1479005>>1479051>since she was married to you under compulsion(NAB) This is not a literal translation but an interpretation. KJV says:
>because thou hast humbled herThe Bible rarely talks about women making decisions. Women were extremely dependent on men (or their parents before they got married), so she doesn't have any leverage in negotiating. Her preferences are irrelevant because she'll go along anyway. The alternative is becoming homeless and starving.
In this case, since your guys killed her parents, marrying you is actually her best option. So it doesn't take force. If the marriage doesn't work out, that's probably because she can't stand you and prefers to be homeless. It says you have to take the L.
If anything, the passage says you can't just rape your dead enemies' women. If you want to fuck her so badly, you'll actually have to marry her and provide for her like an actual wife. So it's a human rights thing.