>>1553328Men choose leeches for wives all the time, that is the default, the status quo, man works, woman sponges off his riches.
Then when women are the victims, people treat it as special, because god forbid a woman be taken advantage of by a man.
I do agree they are retarded in selecting and submitting to scum men, but men are often in similar situations, sticking to an emotional chameleon out of desperation and denial that they were tricked.
The difference is probably that the scumbag men don't hide their poor traits and women still pick them, whereas guys pick women who perform as nice girls. It is still a lack of judgment in a lot of cases, men being tricked by pussy pheromones, but it is the deceiving gender we are talking about here.