>>1555020I just got out of a 5 year relationship with a girl I thought I was going to marry and spend the rest of my life with. She matched my fetish, our alternative lifestyles jived completely, she understood me in a way no woman had before and the sex was 10/10. This was 2 weeks ago, and honestly? It was really hard at first but I'm accepting it.
Tell yourself "If I found one girl who brings me comfort, I can find another". Plenty of fish in the sea, that is true.
Just breakup with her. Do it somewhere you feel safe but do your best to do it in person, she deserves that much respect if you've been dating her. Only if you're afraid for your saftey, IE you can't be near her at all OR if being physically in person is impossible but you must do it do you ever break up over the phone or text.
Rip the bandage off. I say that because you've told us you want to break up. If you were unsure I'd tell you to figure it out, but being abusive to you, a man who struggles with confidence due to lack of experience? Nah, pull that plug. Again, another woman will be out there for you.
We are all freaky basement dwelling losers here, but contrary to popular belief every one of those losers still deserves respect and self-worth, you included. There are goblinas for every goblin. I though to had found my goblina to make me happy in this world, but it wasn't meant to be, but I know if I found one once I can find one again, so can you anon. Go watch Smiling Friends S1E3 if you need a confidence boost.
