>>747207Do you realize how disrespectful and fucked up that is?
You break up with a girl. Maybe there still is a spark of fondness, but there are good reasons to end it in your mind. It's not a decision you took lightly. The girl then proceeds to stalk you and concoct a masterplan to make you fall in love with her again.
Would be like "Aww, how romantic, I've been waiting for someone to ignore my clearly expressed desires to end all romantic involvement with her" or would you think "Back off, psycho bitch!"
We're talking about human beings, not objects up for the taking if you are just forceful or clever enough. I think it's basic human decency to respect the clear and deliberate decisions of others.
I'm not saying she still has feelings - you were both drunk, the conversation can't be taken seriously. But even *if* she still had feelings, she's allowed to break up *despite* her feelings for you. A serious relationship is so much more than just having mutual feelings and there can be very good reasons to break up despite being emotionally hung up. Maybe she doesn't have the time, maybe she doesn't see a common future, maybe the negative feelings outweigh the positive feelings that only crop up once in a while, etc.
And you've been through this once. What makes you think the second time would be different. She's grown apart from you once already, even to the point where she ended the relationship. If you could only restart it, rekindle the flame - it would probably end in the same place. Or has either of you fundamentally changed to become a different person entirely?
In short: This
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