>>9505956All I know is that I go out of my way not to bother my husband. Take care all of his needs, the children, the house and try to do my best. It's taken a few years to get it right and understand marriage, but if it wasn't for the Love of God and our Christ centered marriage..I am not sure we would have made it. We never turn against each other. When I see marriages not based on Christ it's like wading against a strong current..it can't last. Anyway, OP, I'd say pray on it. Good luck to the both of you.