>>16602941I suppose that you should be doing it, yeah, but it's not like you're purposefully ignoring them with some malicious intent in your mind.
My point was that, if you can't get yourself to reply to them despite feeling like you should, then it's probably just something you can't help at the moment. Whatever's keeping you from hitting them back, I doubt it's anything to do with what you actually want. Sometimes you get held back still.
It's just another irrational feeling. And those are hard to get over. I get that it's pretty hard to not feel guilty about because you can't put your finger on why that feeling is and so you think it has something to do with you, but, it's really not your fault.
I doubt that you can completely get rid of feeling guilty, so, not what I'm trying to get you to do, but you know, be lighter on yourself, that's all.
Also, sorry for the late reply, skipping again.
